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Here are 3 Home Field Advantages. I will trade any one for a Buxton HFA. They're also all for sale. $26 PWE ($30 BMWT) for any of them. I'm also flexible

2023.03.29 21:00 mhoke63 Here are 3 Home Field Advantages. I will trade any one for a Buxton HFA. They're also all for sale. $26 PWE ($30 BMWT) for any of them. I'm also flexible

Here are 3 Home Field Advantages. I will trade any one for a Buxton HFA. They're also all for sale. $26 PWE ($30 BMWT) for any of them. I'm also flexible submitted by mhoke63 to baseballcards [link] [comments]


2023.03.29 20:59 TheItinerantSkeptic Shipping From Canada to the US, & The DePop Trick

I wish Poshmark would find a way to work out shipping between Canada & the US; I know US sellers have stuff Canadians want, and vice versa. This said, until/if PM works this out, I've found a couple of workarounds:
  1. I look to see if the seller is on DePop. If they are, they'll often have the item listed there as well. DePop allows shipping across the border, though at full cost (they don't have Poshmark's negotiated shipping prices).
  2. I'm fortunate enough to live in a state bordering Canada. If I see from the seller profile that they're in the province to the north of me, and the drive wouldn't be more than 2 hours, I'll ask them if they're willing to do an in-person pickup at a public location. I'll still buy it through Poshmark, and if the seller goes into the sale and marks it as shipped, usually within a couple of days the "Accept Item" button will light up for me, and I can accept it and let the seller get their money. If that doesn't happen, I'll just contact Poshmark support and tell them I picked the item up. I've done this 3 times so far, and it's worked out great.
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2023.03.29 20:59 Doomer_Prep_2022 Best 22lr ammo for converted AR-15? And/or for preppers? Maybe CCI Tactical or Aguila Interceptor?

I am curious to hear expert opinions on which 22lr ammo is the best fit for an AR-15 with a 22lr conversion.
Some context: I am a bit of a prepper, and I am looking to stockpile 22lr ammo, because it's cheap, easy to store and it's better than nothing. I fit thousands of rounds in a single ammo case, which makes 22lr a very useful thing to pack in bug out vehicle, along with food and water supplies. I also like that an AR-15 can easily fire 5.56/223 and 22lr, meaning I can invest in some 5.56 for really serious situations, but stockpile the smaller and cheaper 22lr which will be a lot better than nothing if the power goes out and never comes back on, or any number of disasters could happen.
Context for my firearms: I have an AR-15 with a CMMG conversion kit in the mail, I also have a Ruger LCR in 22lr (the revolver, not the LCP), and Glock 44 (also the 22Lr).
Given that, what do people think would be the best ammor to stockpile?
Any thoughts on the CCI AR-tactical? I have 300 rounds of that and I was considering getting more. It's mid-range price and power, but if it really is more reliable, then it'd be a good investment. On the other hand if it's not more reliable at all, I may as well get something else. Does it really work? Anyone with experience on this?
The other ammo I am looking at is the Aguila interceptor hollow points, because they have a reputation of being about the most powerful and they are one of the few hollow point 22lr to reliably expand, or so I have heard. But they are a little more expensive, and that matters if I am buying 10,000 rounds.
Thoughts? Suggestions? I would love to hear opinions on this.
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2023.03.29 20:59 Hckr-3 Suggested edits for my advertisement to sell scooter

im looking for edits for my rough draft of a advertisement to sell my scooter
Trying to make it offensive as possible. If you have any suggestions please let me know.
any total rewrites are greatly appreciated*
for sale
-2 ninebot max G30P electric scooters in excellent shape. One is brand new
2 control cables 5 Internal controllers 4 throttles 1 dashboard display oem 2 ST link V2 USB 1 internal charger 2 external chargers 5 sets bottom screws 1 new bearing set front and back 20 tire valves 15 laser lights 5 phone holders
On both scooters
-yellow Cable wrapping -UHF ham radio with radio pouch+ hand mic + external antenna -reflective sticker set -140lb Bag clip -all tires filled with*slime tire sealant
On one scooter
-Top light bar -4 high quality light clips -Rechargeable laser -Middle bar (for a radar detectoGPS)
Lots of accessories and extra parts. The price is firm
$2,250
Both have been modified with custom firmware from Italy called "M.O.A.B quadratic" and have ESC upgrade to make them better than factory stock
includes original boxes and packaging with a obnoxious rubber chicken on each scooter
professionally clear coated with strontium aluminate a VERY bright green and blue color scheme smuggled in from china. It glows for 12 hours like a dirty isotope for 15 years. lights up the trail. It may trip a sensor if you take it to New Mexico and literally have to be smelted in a field. It clearly looks that way. Im not sure if it's legal. A few draws in I get a little woozy driving the thing.
Originally designed as a courier scooter for new york, these will work best for you
includes most all parts to fix that can go wrong. But not much goes wrong with them. there very simple, elegant machines, with less moving parts than a electric bicycle
one is brand new
The other is 1 year old and maintained excellent brand new bearings installed and a brand new OEM ESC
Price is firm
Originally purchased thru Panhandleing. With this poor, pitiful me" routine trying to pluck the heartstrings of people driving by. Looking like they haven't had a crust of bread in a week. While Living in a very large gated home, with brand-new cars, brand-new clothes and lots of food.
if you can't afford this scooter kit at the time being, perhaps consider in your spare time panhandling $40 a day for 32 days In front of a bank during dress season, get a little chair like a begger in front of a Indian restaurant and a little sign that says "help salvation RR me" or "ever suck a [email protected] for a put" and set your goal for the day. just fly your flag and make your daily goal
With 2 included UHF ham radios plus accessories it's a Great business opportunity thru food deliverys, commercial company hawking shake to coons, panhandling, flyer delivery
Radios include scrambler (full coverage UHF with a range of +14km)
I'm not expecting to sell this kit right away, It takes at least 6 months of product placement and 6 points of contact to build customer trust and desire .so I'll keep the add online until it's sold
With panhandling rates of up to $240 per hour possible in targeted areas, 2 units whored out like a commercial company from high ground could generate thousands of dollars plus with the gay chemsex industry and related transgression's there is a large interest in dope flavored popcorn and magic mushrooms in the area with deliverys being dispatched over scrambled radio while panhandling and large profit turnover
I'm not quite sure I want to sell the scooters, but it's time to upgrade models, I found some $25 quarter pounds that hire 4 women for $6.25 a piece for the entire evening. They really seem to like it, and look forward to coming over, so it's time to upgrade models.
serious inquiries only please
thankyou
Any total rewrites are greatly appreciated
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2023.03.29 20:59 InterstitialIbex Claire's Quests are Genuinely Awful

I bought the game on the recent steam spring sale figuring it's finally got enough patches and mods to be worth giving a go since I do love sci fi and cyberpunk. It's been genuinely fun but dear god the Claire quests are upsetting.
1) Claire is the worst co-pilot in existence. She calls out maybe two turns in 4 races and does nothing except distract you the entire time. Maybe warn me there's a super sharp turn coming Claire? No, you're too busy shouting at me to come up behind the guy who is behind us.
2) The AI constantly teleports to keep up, so 95% of the race is irrelevant. The last 5% is all that matters, where if you fuck up and get overtaken, you have to reset the race, because it will teleport in front of you and win. FUN. Worthwhile. Engaging. I love this mechanic. Rewards my driving.
3) Beast. Why the fuck is the default option for road races a tank with no handling or acceleration? It only works for the Badlands, 1 out of 4 races. Beyond that, it's awful for every other race. The only saving grace is every AI racer is equally shit.
4) Claire again. Terrible motivations. Your husband died in a death race. Doing death racing. And then you want revenge by going after someone who very clearly is pulling out of the death race and giving up. Either hire a merc and stop pretending you're a racer, or do the goddamn race.

Seriously, fuck this quest series.
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2023.03.29 20:58 L3arrick Need help - Looking for someone who can determine feasibility of converting my detached garage into a secondary dwelling

As the title notes - I am trying to determine this. Anyone know anyone who can give it a look and tell me what work would need to be done?
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2023.03.29 20:58 cl0udkick3r A little discussion/survey about some Fig Farms strains (for potential purchase)

My dispensary is about to have a sale of Aeriz products which will also include Fig Farms (finally). I plan on trying Rainbowz and Florida Oranges, but I wanted to try a few more of the Fig Farms since they’ll be on sale for once. The options are:
I’ve only had Dark Karma (thought it was quite underwhelming) and Blue Face (absolutely loved it). I prefer indicas, but also enjoy hybrids. Once every few months I’ll grab a sativa that’s had good reviews on here, so I was debating Lucid Blue. But anyway, I have two questions:
  1. If Animal Face and Blue Face are the same genetics (and just a different pheno), which of the two would you say is bettepacks a better punch for those of you who have tried both?
  2. Which of these strains (primarily of the ones I mentioned, but feel free to include any others) are your favorite indica or hybrid strains by Fig Farms?
Thanks!
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2023.03.29 20:57 jackedjackie Guts from Berserk super proud of this one!!!

Guts from Berserk super proud of this one!!!
I think Ill do a JoJo character next (also for sale in my new shop i put the link in the self promo thread)
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2023.03.29 20:57 Hckr-3 Suggested edits for my advertisement to sell scooter

im looking for edits for my rough draft of a advertisement to sell my scooter
Trying to make it offensive as possible. If you have any suggestions please let me know.
any total rewrites are greatly appreciated*
for sale
-2 ninebot max G30P electric scooters in excellent shape. One is brand new
2 control cables 5 Internal controllers 4 throttles 1 dashboard display oem 2 ST link V2 USB 1 internal charger 2 external chargers 5 sets bottom screws 1 new bearing set front and back 20 tire valves 15 laser lights 5 phone holders
On both scooters
-yellow Cable wrapping -UHF ham radio with radio pouch+ hand mic + external antenna -reflective sticker set -140lb Bag clip -all tires filled with*slime tire sealant
On one scooter
-Top light bar -4 high quality light clips -Rechargeable laser -Middle bar (for a radar detectoGPS)
Lots of accessories and extra parts. The price is firm
$2,250
Both have been modified with custom firmware from Italy called "M.O.A.B quadratic" and have ESC upgrade to make them better than factory stock
includes original boxes and packaging with a obnoxious rubber chicken on each scooter
professionally clear coated with strontium aluminate a VERY bright green and blue color scheme smuggled in from china. It glows for 12 hours like a dirty isotope for 15 years. lights up the trail. It may trip a sensor if you take it to New Mexico and literally have to be smelted in a field. It clearly looks that way. Im not sure if it's legal. A few draws in I get a little woozy driving the thing.
Originally designed as a courier scooter for new york, these will work best for you
includes most all parts to fix that can go wrong. But not much goes wrong with them. there very simple, elegant machines, with less moving parts than a electric bicycle
one is brand new
The other is 1 year old and maintained excellent brand new bearings installed and a brand new OEM ESC
Price is firm
Originally purchased thru Panhandleing. With this poor, pitiful me" routine trying to pluck the heartstrings of people driving by. Looking like they haven't had a crust of bread in a week. While Living in a very large gated home, with brand-new cars, brand-new clothes and lots of food.
if you can't afford this scooter kit at the time being, perhaps consider in your spare time panhandling $40 a day for 32 days In front of a bank during dress season, get a little chair like a begger in front of a Indian restaurant and a little sign that says "help salvation RR me" or "ever suck a [email protected] for a put" and set your goal for the day. just fly your flag and make your daily goal
With 2 included UHF ham radios plus accessories it's a Great business opportunity thru food deliverys, commercial company hawking shake to coons, panhandling, flyer delivery
Radios include scrambler (full coverage UHF with a range of +14km)
I'm not expecting to sell this kit right away, It takes at least 6 months of product placement and 6 points of contact to build customer trust and desire .so I'll keep the add online until it's sold
With panhandling rates of up to $240 per hour possible in targeted areas, 2 units whored out like a commercial company from high ground could generate thousands of dollars plus with the gay chemsex industry and related transgression's there is a large interest in dope flavored popcorn and magic mushrooms in the area with deliverys being dispatched over scrambled radio while panhandling and large profit turnover
I'm not quite sure I want to sell the scooters, but it's time to upgrade models, I found some $25 quarter pounds that hire 4 women for $6.25 a piece for the entire evening. They really seem to like it, and look forward to coming over, so it's time to upgrade models.
serious inquiries only please
thankyou
Any total rewrites are greatly appreciated
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2023.03.29 20:57 peteski Tom Gauld (art for sale)

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2023.03.29 20:56 Hckr-3 Suggested edits for my scooter advertisement

im looking for edits for my rough draft of a advertisement to sell my scooter
Trying to make it offensive as possible. If you have any suggestions please let me know.
any total rewrites are greatly appreciated*
for sale
-2 ninebot max G30P electric scooters in excellent shape. One is brand new
2 control cables 5 Internal controllers 4 throttles 1 dashboard display oem 2 ST link V2 USB 1 internal charger 2 external chargers 5 sets bottom screws 1 new bearing set front and back 20 tire valves 15 laser lights 5 phone holders
On both scooters
-yellow Cable wrapping -UHF ham radio with radio pouch+ hand mic + external antenna -reflective sticker set -140lb Bag clip -all tires filled with*slime tire sealant
On one scooter
-Top light bar -4 high quality light clips -Rechargeable laser -Middle bar (for a radar detectoGPS)
Lots of accessories and extra parts. The price is firm
$2,250
Both have been modified with custom firmware from Italy called "M.O.A.B quadratic" and have ESC upgrade to make them better than factory stock
includes original boxes and packaging with a obnoxious rubber chicken on each scooter
professionally clear coated with strontium aluminate a VERY bright green and blue color scheme smuggled in from china. It glows for 12 hours like a dirty isotope for 15 years. lights up the trail. It may trip a sensor if you take it to New Mexico and literally have to be smelted in a field. It clearly looks that way. Im not sure if it's legal. A few draws in I get a little woozy driving the thing.
Originally designed as a courier scooter for new york, these will work best for you
includes most all parts to fix that can go wrong. But not much goes wrong with them. there very simple, elegant machines, with less moving parts than a electric bicycle
one is brand new
The other is 1 year old and maintained excellent brand new bearings installed and a brand new OEM ESC
Price is firm
Originally purchased thru Panhandleing. With this poor, pitiful me" routine trying to pluck the heartstrings of people driving by. Looking like they haven't had a crust of bread in a week. While Living in a very large gated home, with brand-new cars, brand-new clothes and lots of food.
if you can't afford this scooter kit at the time being, perhaps consider in your spare time panhandling $40 a day for 32 days In front of a bank during dress season, get a little chair like a begger in front of a Indian restaurant and a little sign that says "help salvation RR me" or "ever suck a [email protected] for a put" and set your goal for the day. just fly your flag and make your daily goal
With 2 included UHF ham radios plus accessories it's a Great business opportunity thru food deliverys, commercial company hawking shake to coons, panhandling, flyer delivery
Radios include scrambler (full coverage UHF with a range of +14km)
I'm not expecting to sell this kit right away, It takes at least 6 months of product placement and 6 points of contact to build customer trust and desire .so I'll keep the add online until it's sold
With panhandling rates of up to $240 per hour possible in targeted areas, 2 units whored out like a commercial company from high ground could generate thousands of dollars plus with the gay chemsex industry and related transgression's there is a large interest in dope flavored popcorn and magic mushrooms in the area with deliverys being dispatched over scrambled radio while panhandling and large profit turnover
I'm not quite sure I want to sell the scooters, but it's time to upgrade models, I found some $25 quarter pounds that hire 4 women for $6.25 a piece for the entire evening. They really seem to like it, and look forward to coming over, so it's time to upgrade models.
serious inquiries only please
thankyou
Any total rewrites are greatly appreciated
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2023.03.29 20:56 StepwiseUndrape574 📷 GTA 5 Modded accounts for sale $15 Billion 32x deluxos Rank 500: https://furymodz.com

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2023.03.29 20:56 javy829 Inconsistent Results with Facebook Ads This Year, Anyone Else Experiencing This?

I been marketing for 7 years and for most part marketing on Facebook has been great until 2023.
I am in the home decor niche in the United States, I run conversion campaigns to well performing audiences. (Stacked Interest, Lookalikes Audiences) broad hasn't performed well for us.
The issue I been having this year is that I would create a campaign and in less the 24 hours it will convert, but the it tends to die after that.
For example, when I create a campaign I start getting add to cart immediately and eventually will get some conversions, but on the next day it will just die out, meaning less add to carts and no conversions. This has happened to me now, multiple times this year.
Before I remember I would create ads or duplicate good performing ads and it will just run for months.
I haven't been able to find consistency so far, this year.
Has this been happening to someone else? Do anyone has advice how to fix this? I would be more than grateful if someone can let me know a solution to this.
Thank you!
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2023.03.29 20:56 mayonnaisecarbon AliExpress Anniversary Sale

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2023.03.29 20:56 StepwiseUndrape574 GTA 5 Online Modded Vehicles for sale #1

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2023.03.29 20:55 Icy-Engineering4819 Repairs needed and have an extended warranty: Is this normal or deceptive business practice?

Is it typical business practice for ASC Certified shops to mark up parts between 25% - 106% above MSRP for a warranty-covered job? Warranty has agreed to pay MSRP, however, I am being charged the difference in cost. I have a similar question for labor rate. Is it typical for a shop to accept a warranty but charge the customer above the warranty agreed upon labor rate? There are three different repairs required and the rate the shop is charging is different per repair (between $208 - $219 per hour). Warranty is covering two of those jobs and has agreed to pay $198.41/hour. The last question I have is regarding Sales Tax. Warranty is only covering a small percentage of the total sales tax, but no one can explain to me how that calculation was made. I’m on the hook for 85% of the total sales tax on the quote. The shop has refused to provide a quote that shows what was submitted to warranty, what warranty has agreed to pay and how that all translates to my out-of-pocket cost. They will only provide me with a basic quote that has the total charges (incl. parts and labor) and then separately said that Warranty is paying X, so my total will be Y. I’ve had to contact my warranty company to find out specifics. I’m just trying to figure out if this aligns with other people’s experiences and what, if any, recourse I have to fight this.
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2023.03.29 20:54 DeggzNBacon [Xbox][PC][H] credits [W] sweeper dunes and sweeper yorebands below

Using the prices I have listed as a baseline, I’m willing to negotiate
Dunes I need and prices I’ll pay * BS - 300 * FG - 300
Yorebands and prices I’ll pay * Black - 600 * BS - 100
Some stuffs for sale * OG Tactician Black Interstellar (Xbox only) * Acrobat Saffron Dune Racer (Xbox/PC) * BS Octane (Xbox/PC) * Lime Yorebands (Xbox/PC) * OG Sweeper Black Singularity (PC only) * Sweeper TW Octane Bodacious (PC only) * Sweeper TW Octane MG-88 (PC only)
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2023.03.29 20:54 EddieTarTar I (25M) don't really know what's going on with me and my coworker (26F)

Hello everyone, I need help. I’m really lost here, and if you take the time to read my story, I’d appreciate any and all help/criticism, so long as it’s respectful and well-intentioned. This is going to be a bit of a long story, so please bear with me.
Let me start from the beginning.
Around eight months ago, I got hired at a store I’d been trying to get a job at for a few years. I met a girl there: let’s call her Emma. She was one link further on the chain than me, and awaiting a promotion. We got along for the most part; had a few things in common, and a few things we didn’t. I don’t want to go into detail, but some of the things she was very vocal about irritated me enough to mostly keep my distance. We’d talk on our shift, and I’d be friendly, but we kept it as acquaintances and only occasionally talked about the things we had in common (we did share numbers).
Then, a few months in, I walked in on her crying in the office (a room close to the breakroom, we work on a sales floor). She said she was upset because someone she’d trained was getting promoted to the position she wanted, and she was left without word on when she would get hers. I kept my distance but extended grace, as I genuinely did feel bad for her, and while she was embarrassed to have been seen so distressed, she texted me later thanking me for my kindness with her situation.
At this point, she was still saying some things that rubbed me the wrong way. These are general differences in surface-level values, to elaborate a little, but in hindsight they’re really not a big deal. She was also now texting me much more frequently.
Then, one night when I was closing, a mutual friend of ours (friend to her for longer than friend to me) came in and we had a discussion. Her (female) friend said,
“You know, me and [my sister] think Emma has a crush on you.”
I denied this, but I could feel things changing just from hearing the suggestion. Our friend insisted, and said, “I don’t know for sure, but I mean, just the way she talks to you and stuff…”
It mostly ended there, and we talked about other things, but I couldn’t stop thinking about this. Then, in January, Emma discovered a mutual interest of ours that we hadn’t spoken about before. We’ll say it’s figure collecting.
I said to her I had a lot of them, and she insisted i show her over text when I get home. So I did, and she was elated; all-caps responses, happy to be talking to me, and after a few back-and-forths, she suggested we go on a trip to go figure hunting. An actual trip, too—to a city over three hours away. This rang alarm bells for me, because I hadn’t imagined she’d be interested in spending time with a coworker like that. But I figured I’d get something out of it, so I agreed. The next day at work, she came up to me with a whole plan laid out—I’d leave my car at her place, she’d drive us down, and we’d go hobby shopping. The weather affected the intended date three separate times, unfortunately, so we were only able to actually go at the very end of the month. But when we did, I was shocked at how much fun I had. We shared stories, we talked the whole way there, and I realized we had much, MUCH more in common than I initially thought. Similar goals for life, similar beliefs, and to my surprise, we resolved the thing about her that had been bugging me (about that minor difference in values). I’d been expecting her to clutch her opinion on the issue, but she treated what I had to say with respect and fairness, and I did the same. Maybe I’d gotten into my own head a bit about it, and it prevented me from thinking of her in a way she deserved to be thought of as. (I know I’m being vague here, but I really just don’t want to talk about that part of it.)
Let me add this, too;
She told me a secret about herself before our trip. I won’t share it, but I took it to heart, and incorporated it into a figurine of her I made as a gift. In fact, the statuette I made had references to our inside-jokes, her favorite colors, and favorite foods, too. You may have a hard time visualizing this, so I’ll say that the medium I’m working in makes this kind of project easy to make look good. At the end of our trip, I gave the gift to her.
She was absolutely struck with emotion; she started sobbing, got out of the car, got on her knees and just cried. When I got out of the car, she hugged me hard multiple times, cried on my shoulder, and told me the gift was the most thoughtful thing she’d ever gotten. She couldn’t stop hugging me, crying, and after a few minutes of this she kissed me on the cheek twice and said that the time we’d spent together was amazing. I said thank you for driving me, and through tears she said, “oh, you were so worth it.” I drove home fucked up and flustered from that; I’d never gotten female attention like this before.
When I suggested we hang out again, she texted back, “Yes, god, please.”
For the past two months, we’ve been spending more and more time together; going out to lunch, dinner, riverside walks, and also going to fun things like skating and the tennis court with our coworkers. But we haven’t established any actual romantic intentions. In fact, when we spent time on Valentines Day and I gave her a card and chocolate, she said, “Oh god, I almost got you flowers, but I—I was overthinking it. I’ll give you flowers next time I see you.”
And she did. She gave me flowers of my favorite color. But as she gave them to me, she pointed to the various kinds and said, “These flowers represent friendship,” and other things as such. Now, look; at this point in our relationship, we ARE friends, but making a point of it like that was weird to me. Over time, she’s continuing to call me things like “homie,” and “friend,” and I could be overthinking it, but that feels deliberate. After a few brunches and dinners, she barely texts me anymore; we have a Snapchat streak going strong since the trip, but she says nothing of substance with it, it’s all random pictures and such to keep the streak going. I don’t push on this because I don’t want to come off as clingy or desperate. At work, when we have the chance, she DOES still talk to me about the things she likes and her life, but it doesn’t continue once she’s gone home. I’ve been stuck planning all of our outings so far; all she's put effort into was the trip. Now, every time I DO suggest something, she always does follows through; but the lack of communication and suggestions from her make this feel one-sided, and doubly so with all the “friend” terms. But I'm so confused, because now whenever we part, she kisses me on the cheek, and I kiss her there too.
There’s also the fact that she has since gotten her promotion, and is now my manager; and since going through this with a coworker is bad enough, I don’t need to explain why this makes things more complicated. She generally seems like the kind of person who doesn’t have respect for the rules at work, so I don’t think her position is something she thinks about too hard in regards to what is an appropriate off-the-clock relationship, but it’s something that bothers ME. In my state, manager and subordinate is legal, so it's not a moral issue I take with this, but that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be a total shitfest if people found out. The drama would probably be awful, and I know neither of us want to leave this job.
So now I’m really conflicted, stuck, scared. Do I formally ask this girl out? I’m afraid I’ve misunderstood her feelings, and that asking the question will make things awkward between us from what feels like an inevitable rejection; as if I’d mistaken friendship for something more. I have never had a relationship before (and apparently, neither has she), and I don’t want to be the kind of guy who can’t get female attention without thinking it needs to be something more. But she always makes a point to say goodbye to me and hug me when her shift ends, we shared such deep feelings on our trip, and that thing her friend said to me keeps rattling around in my mind, not to mention all the little kisses. And -- even if it was absolutely certain she felt this way about me, is it wise to date my manager?
I’m sorry this post is so long, but it feels like there’s an incredible amount of context needed for this situation. Even then, there’s a little more, but I can’t lay out three months of life experience out in a post like this, so you’ll have to bear with me, and I’ll answer questions. Thank you for your time, I appreciate any and all questions, advice, or observations.
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