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July 2022 filer here, not on to complain about wait times just curious if anyone is having the same issue. I understand the estimated processing time is just that, an estimation but twice my estimated time has closed on 1 week or five days then switched to “case is taking longer than expected to process.” Has anyone else had this issue or just me?
Background - wife is a Canadian naturalized citizen and I am US-born citizen. Married for 2 years, together for 3.

I’m having a dilemma between continuing yung naumpisahan kong housing loan sa Profriends. It’s in-house financing, 18K a month, Lot Area 70sqm, Floor Area 50sqm. 100K+ na rin naibabayad ko but aside from nagchange yung financial situation ko ngayon, nagpiprevail din yung reasons kung bakit parang ayaw ko na. Even so, I don’t want to make a hasty decision so I’m here seeking others’ perspective.
Considerations: - What I liked about the propery is yung location. Big talaga ako sa exclusivity- yung tahimik, walang excessive noises from motorcycles/cars, maiingay na kapitbahay etc. But it comes with a con — malayo sa bilihan ng pagkain atbp — camotor is a must and hindi ako marunong magdrive (honestly it’s the one thing siguro na di ko magagawa in this life huhu.) Right now yung bf ko yung nagdadrive kaya napa-oo ako noon sa unit, but thinking now, hindi pa kami ganun kasolid ng bf ko para magrely na andun sya palagi to drive me.

• Money. Ang yabang ko nung nag-apply ako for the house huhu, I was earning 60K/month and I was naive and pretty confident na mani lang yung 18K/month for a house loan. Ngayon, it feels like a drag.
  
• I realized na ang liit ng bahay. Na-shiny object syndrome siguro ako, but as time went by na bumibista ako dun sa subdivision, I find myself commenting how small the area is. I’m used to the probinsya house sizes na may backyard and front yard. Narealize ko na ganun pala talaga gusto ko. Parang gusto ko nalang palakihin yung bahay ng parents ko and doon nalang din muna ako.
  
• The boyfriend. Natuturn-off ako pag sinasabi nya how he would turn one of the rooms into his gaming room or even just when he mentions ‘pag lumipat na tayo’ ‘natin’ etc. pero sa pagbayad ng bahay ay ako lahat. For context, 1 yr+ na kami, we met in Bumble, he’s 32, wala syang work at the moment, I live with him sa house nila together with his father. Ako mostly gumagastos sa bahay. I like him kasi maasikaso sya, and sweet. Going back sa house, ayokong maging yun yung reason to trap myself in a relationship, naiimagine ko na if he moves in with me doon, it’s like marrying him na rin. I don’t have the heart to tell him this.
  
• I want to take advantage of my HDMF. Sayang din kasi.
  
• I feel like mas gusto ko munang suportahan ngayon yung parents ko uli and iimprove house nila.
  
• I’m thinking of ipon nalang muna to buy a lot sa probinsya - mas aligned sa goal ko talaga.
  

Hello everyone, coming here with a rather odd question. My Wife (America) and I (German) married last year and so far really, given the distance, we only had 2 weeks of visiting each other. Recently she came over for 3 Months to see how life in Germany would be. Now she is going back and its my turn to stay at her place for 3-6 Months.
Now, I will, as she did too, quit my Job for that time so I will be coming over unemployed and I wonder if that could be a Problem to Border Guards or Consulate. It wasnt a Problem in Germany at all, but i heard some Storys about People not being allowed entry because of the marriage and the expectations to not leave. Should i apply for a B2 Visa or is that more likely to not work?
Additional Information: Am early 30s, employed by my current company for 3 years, married my wife last year. Born and lived all of my life in Germany. I keep my Apartment here and I have a sizeable Family also origin and living in my country.

18-21 is a confusing age. I got friends getting married, some in prison, some having kids and then some still have to ask their parents to stay out past 9.30

I have been trying for years to find an answer to the question of why Gay Marriage is not allowed in our church. I understand that its because marriage is supposed to be between a man and a woman, but why does that have to be the case? Why would God even make people gay, but then not allow them to act on their feelings? I have tried for many years to find a satisfying answer and have not been able to. I see gay members of the church and my heart just breaks for them watching their pain. It just seems to cruel to tell us all that we need to get married, have kids, and make the entire plan of salvation center on families and then make it impossible for some individuals to get married and start their eternal families. Over the years while I have come to accept that I may never figure out the answer to this and will just have to accept that I may not figure out the answer until after my death, I still am trying. So Reddit, any answers?

Hi, I'm 32 married with 1 kid. I just want to ask if this number is still healthy financially. 31.7% of my annual income goes to my housing and auto loan. 19% to my savings/EF and the rests go to our OTE and daily expenses.

I’m currently about 11 weeks and have already had a healthy scan/ultrasound. I was planning to announce to my friend group about the pregnancy next week, but a close friend in the group was just married (will be three weeks post-wedding if I announce at ~12 weeks). Is this enough time to be considerate? I personally would have had no issue if a friend of mine did something similar right after my wedding, but I wanted to get a consensus.

I’m (32F) on the fence about having children. The common discourse from my friend group and social media is that having kids is very much not worth it. I know barely anyone who has children so I’m looking for some different perspectives.
For context:
I grew up believing that my mother never should have had children. I could see the regret in her eyes. She had three kids in her early twenties and had no idea how to be a parent. I know that She loves us though. My dad undermined her at every step so that she was always the bad guy. I grew up thinking high conflict was part of being a family.
Consequently, I’ve never wanted children or felt any maternal instinct. All I feel when I think of having children of my own is a deep and overwhelming fear. Fear of exhaustion, financial instability, losing myself and my body to these little fiends. But also fear of getting angry and overwhelmed and being a bad person and a bad parent. Then there’s the fear of my partner not acting like a team mate.
I didn’t expect to ever want to get married or have children. But now I’m dating a man who has made me rethink. I trust that we will continue to approach life as a team, that he will pull his weight, and that he will support me through pregnancy and motherhood if we choose it.
I trust him, but I’m still fearful. I know having children will change our relationship in expected ways. And even with a supportive partner, I know it will be completely overwhelming for the next 20+ years.
Parents are constantly talking about how nuts parenthood is. All I hear is that I’ll never sleep again and I’ll never have a moment to myself until I’m 60.
So my question is, is the day-to-day really as bad as people say it is? And if parenthood is so terrible, why do people do it?
(And if you can be honest, are you actually happy you had kids or is it just too late to change your mind?)

I female 24 heard that my cousin ( Souzan) is getting married but I made it clear that I won't attend now my aunts are losing for the " Sake of family image " last summer my cousin Nelly was coming over from another country So me and Souzan went to stay with her so she won't feel lonely but because of my job I stayed for 4 days and 3 nights only ! After staying with them one night Souzan was telling about a rumour in the Family That I was dating Nelly's brother let's call him Sid, She said that all my aunts ( I have 9 aunts btw) are talking trashy behind my back and how they are creating a story between us ! They said the reason why he wasn't coming back( he lives in a different country) it was me cuz we broke up and many other things which ofc aren't true ! It was confirmed by his sister too ! Sid got back to announce his marriage so The whole family thought it was me ! I was surprised why me ! We weren't even close and I haven't seen him for 5 years or more ( where I'm from u can marry your cousin it's totally normal ) The worst part is that his now wife heard about the situation didn't say anything but as a woman I know that she knew . Souzan said the reason why they thought we were dating cuz when we were young we were rly close .. In my point of view we were close cuz he grow up in a different country and I was the only cousin who spoke the language but we weren't close after growing up.. Souzan said that my aunts kept saying that we are still in contact and I refused his marriage proposal since I want freedom in a meaning of not being able to stay with one man 🙂 a he in which Nelly confirmed all of Souzan words .. When I got home I told my older sister everything she got mad and went to confront everyone my aunties denied everything and without mentioning who told me .. They blamed Souzan and Nelly for telling me. Which lated I said it was them the Next morning all my aunties came over to explain that everything was a lie and they would never ( side note I didn't tell my mother cuz I didn't want her to get involved, since she doesn't have a good relationship with my dad's side of the family now I see why 😂) they made both girls confronting me and right into my face they said we never told her and she was lying !!! I was flabbergasted and I throwed some hands they endup leaving It was a whole complicated situation but I end up cutting ties ( not completely) with my aunts so does my family, But for grams we has to attend some family gatherings since grams favors us the mos and she will be sad if we don't attend. When I heart about her getting married I made it clear That I won't attend, Now they are calling me selfish / immature / as*ole for not attending cuz All other family will be asking about my attendance and how thay will ruin her day !! SO AIRTA
Sorry if there are any mistakes Eng is my 5th language 🥺🫶

Marriage
I am loving someone from Orthodox family and loved someone from the same religion but of different group where their traditions are different but cannot say that of different caste. I have told my family that I am loving him for 3 years initially they were not accepting it and you know after hearing this they will start that we didn't raise you properly etc etc which someone can't hear this and started to tell better to break ties than to marry you with that certain someone. I have been so sure about marrying that person an was sticking to the same decision and my father got angry and was telling whatever he has in his mind.. Now they are ready to marry me with that certain someone but the condition would be they will not maintain any ties after that Or they would not want to allow me to their house afterwards and have been working quite few years and telling that they want to return the every penny that I have spent on them. How is this with me like I just want to marry someone whom I loved and they feel it's embarrassing for them and they would not want to keep any ties with me.. I had an option just to elope but I rather chose to convince them as they are my responsibility we have been waiting since 2 years.. Am I taking the right decision because if I take a step now there would be no backward step need your pov folks.. As I am sceptical about future where I would be needing parents love and my love towards them for sure. My father is so so adamant about what he tells he will stick to this decision in any possible way. Pls help me Thank you

People online tell me that women like men more than men like women, in a more well rounded way and across the world and throughout history
I gave some examples of what I read online to my parents, sister and psychologist and they told me:
That most people believe that sexism is more common towards women than men, but not sooo much more common. Maybe 70/30 or 60/40. And that most people believe that sexism towards men is not just a thing as backlash because of sexism towards women
That most people believe that sexism is not about hating women, it was about men exerting physical strength to get roles of power through history. But that women were not seen as inferior, lesser, nor incapable. That traditional roles were seen as different, but equal. So women raised families and had an important role doing that. While men worked. And women weren't seen to be catering to men, serving men, owned and controlled by men, nor defined by their relationships to men. Because men were expected to marry and serve their wife and kids by working too. And just like some women may have not liked their role in the home and wanted something else, some men may have not liked having to work all the time, felt like they were missing out, because they may have wanted to spend more time with their kids
That most don't believe that men objectify women while women don't objectify men. Nor that women respect and treat men better
That most don't believe that women are attracted to men in a more well rounded way than men are attracted to women nor that if you took sex away, men would prefer men in all other ways and see them as superior
That most don't believe that women in Muslim countries or women through history like men more than the men like women nor treat them better
That most think violence towards women is not about hating women but about power, control, testosterone, and women being easier targets due to being physically weaker. And that the same men who commit domestic violence would also be the types to start pub fights with other men, or to target kids
That most people don't think that women hate each other, compete and get jealous while men have stronger bonds, friendships and camaraderie. They think that women mostly support each other too
That most people don't think that men who do female jobs/hobbies roles are held to lower standards and praised for the bare minimum, while women who do male jobs/roles are held to higher standards and have to prove themselves. Also that most think workplaces like the police may be a big boy's club but that there are also ones that are a girl's club. Also that most don't think that women are held to higher behavioural standards/expectations than men nor judged harsher, etc. Nor that female celebs and characters are trolled/threatened, bullied and hated more online than male ones are
That most people don't think that men prefer father figures, male role models and male idols and lead characters, while women can appreciate either gender in all of those things. Nor that women support and praise the men of LGBT more than the women of LGBT, gay men more than lesbians, etc. Nor that women support gay men much more than men support lesbians
What do you think?
Why does the online world say differently? And also how do women and f eminists stay attracted to men while believing that women like men more and in a more well rounded way and that take sex away and there's not much left keeping men interested in women? That's the biggest turn off to me, reading online put me off men for life. I mean why would you be okay with unrequited love or imbalanced love from one gender to another? Being okay with finding the needle in the haystack is pathetic. People online made me reclusive/avoid people and not wanting to associate with people ever again. I won't accept being surrounded by a society where most believe and accept it.

People online tell me that women like men more than men like women, in a more well rounded way and across the world and throughout history
I gave some examples of what I read online to my parents, sister and psychologist and they told me:
That most people believe that sexism is more common towards women than men, but not sooo much more common. Maybe 70/30 or 60/40. And that most people believe that sexism towards men is not just a thing as backlash because of sexism towards women
That most people believe that sexism is not about hating women, it was about men exerting physical strength to get roles of power through history. But that women were not seen as inferior, lesser, nor incapable. That traditional roles were seen as different, but equal. So women raised families and had an important role doing that. While men worked. And women weren't seen to be catering to men, serving men, owned and controlled by men, nor defined by their relationships to men. Because men were expected to marry and serve their wife and kids by working too. And just like some women may have not liked their role in the home and wanted something else, some men may have not liked having to work all the time, felt like they were missing out, because they may have wanted to spend more time with their kids
That most don't believe that men objectify women while women don't objectify men. Nor that women respect and treat men better
That most don't believe that women are attracted to men in a more well rounded way than men are attracted to women nor that if you took sex away, men would prefer men in all other ways and see them as superior
That most don't believe that women in Muslim countries or women through history like men more than the men like women nor treat them better
That most think violence towards women is not about hating women but about power, control, testosterone, and women being easier targets due to being physically weaker. And that the same men who commit domestic violence would also be the types to start pub fights with other men, or to target kids
That most people don't think that women hate each other, compete and get jealous while men have stronger bonds, friendships and camaraderie. They think that women mostly support each other too
That most people don't think that men who do female jobs/hobbies roles are held to lower standards and praised for the bare minimum, while women who do male jobs/roles are held to higher standards and have to prove themselves. Also that most think workplaces like the police may be a big boy's club but that there are also ones that are a girl's club. Also that most don't think that women are held to higher behavioural standards/expectations than men nor judged harsher, etc. Nor that female celebs and characters are trolled/threatened, bullied and hated more online than male ones are
That most people don't think that men prefer father figures, male role models and male idols and lead characters, while women can appreciate either gender in all of those things. Nor that women support and praise the men of LGBT more than the women of LGBT, gay men more than lesbians, etc. Nor that women support gay men much more than men support lesbians
What do you think?
Why does the online world say differently? And also how do women and f eminists stay attracted to men while believing that women like men more and in a more well rounded way and that take sex away and there's not much left keeping men interested in women? That's the biggest turn off to me, reading online put me off men for life. I mean why would you be okay with unrequited love or imbalanced love from one gender to another? Being okay with finding the needle in the haystack is pathetic. People online made me reclusive/avoid people and not wanting to associate with people ever again. I won't accept being surrounded by a society where most believe and accept it.

I'm looking for a YA suspense book, that has thriller elements, but are also in touch with reality. The closest I can think of is Sadie by Courtney Summers. (or similar vibes to the TV shows "the end of the fxxing world" or "wayne") Although all those examples are run away stories, that's not a necessity. I think my main point is to stray away from thrillers that are about corrupted rich teenagers doing bad stuff and blackmailing each other because of drama/greed/popularity (pll, elite etc).

Hi! My name is Jamie, I am 73 yr young bi-sexual male who is married but bored. I am feminine in nature. Are there any other bi's out there like me who can take away my boredom? Looking for a very special online long term friend. Email me at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]). Bye and hope to hear from you soon.

Marrying a single parent, there are several important factors to consider. Keep in mind that each situation is unique, so these considerations may vary depending on the specific circumstances. Here are some key points to think about:
Relationship dynamics: Evaluate the relationship between you and your partner. Consider the compatibility, communication style, shared values, and long-term goals you both have. It's crucial to have a solid foundation before adding the complexities of blending families.
Parenting styles: Discuss your expectations and approaches to parenting. Understand how your partner raises their child and how they might expect you to be involved. Ensure you have compatible parenting philosophies and can work together effectively as a team.
Emotional readiness: Be honest with yourself about your emotional readiness to assume a parental role or co-parenting responsibilities. Understand that marrying a single parent means becoming a stepparent and potentially sharing parenting duties with the other biological parent.
Relationship with the child: Consider the existing relationship between your partner's child and yourself. Reflect on the dynamics, rapport, and level of acceptance between you and the child. Building a healthy relationship with the child is essential for a successful blended family.
Co-parenting with the other biological parent: Assess the involvement and relationship your partner has with the other biological parent. Consider the impact it may have on your relationship and the child's well-being. Discuss expectations, boundaries, and potential challenges that might arise.
Time and availability: Recognize that raising children requires time and commitment. Understand the demands of being a parent and how it might affect your personal and professional life. Discuss how you and your partner will balance your time and responsibilities effectively.
Financial considerations: Evaluate the financial implications of blending families. Discuss matters such as child support, expenses related to the child, and potential changes to your financial situation. Open and honest communication about money is crucial for avoiding conflicts.
Support systems: Consider the availability of support systems, both for the child and for yourselves as a couple. Evaluate the emotional and practical support you can provide each other and whether you have access to extended family, friends, or community resources.
Patience and flexibility: Understand that blending families can be a gradual and sometimes challenging process. It requires patience, understanding, and flexibility from all involved. Discuss how you and your partner plan to navigate potential difficulties and work through conflicts constructively.
Long-term commitment: Reflect on your commitment to your partner and their child. Marriage is a significant commitment, and it's important to consider whether you are ready to be a stable and supportive presence in the child's life for the long term.
Boundaries and roles: Clearly define your roles and boundaries within the family. Discuss expectations regarding household chores, decision-making, and parenting responsibilities. Open communication and mutual understanding are key to maintaining a healthy and harmonious family environment.
Extended family dynamics: Take into account the relationships between your partner's child and their extended family members, such as grandparents or other relatives. Consider how these relationships may impact your role and involvement within the family.
Personal readiness: Reflect on your own readiness to become a stepparent. Consider your emotional preparedness, patience, and willingness to navigate potential challenges that may arise. It's important to ensure that you're entering into the relationship with realistic expectations and a genuine desire to be a supportive figure in the child's life.
Seek professional guidance if needed: If you have concerns or doubts about marrying a single parent, consider seeking guidance from a family therapist or counselor. They can provide insights, advice, and strategies for navigating the unique dynamics of blended families.
Time Management and Personal Space: Recognize that being a single parent requires time and attention. Discuss how responsibilities will be shared and how you can strike a balance between personal time, couple time, and family time.
Compatibility and Shared Values: Ensure you have shared values, goals, and visions for the future. Discuss important aspects like parenting styles, discipline, and education to ensure you are aligned in your approach.
Legal and Custodial Matters: Familiarize yourself with any legal agreements, custody arrangements, or visitation schedules that may be in place. It's important to understand your rights and responsibilities within the legal framework.
Marriage is a significant decision, and when considering marrying a single parent, These considerations can help you access the potential challenges and responsibilities involved in forming a blended family. It will guide your thinking and discussions. Open and honest communication with your partner is crucial to address any concerns, align expectations, and ensure that you make informed decisions together.
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My boyfriend is a 33M diagnosed with bipolar at 24. We have been dating for over a year, and he said he wants to propose soon but I am worried he may not be a reliable parent later during marriage. He takes his meds every day and sees his therapist regularly, but he has been hallucinating since he was a kid, and that scares me because it means his case is quite serious. I appreciate that he was honest about his bipolar from the beginning, so it was up to me to decide whether to stay in the relationship or not. I called my mum for advice, and she said I have to dump him immediately because hallucinations are never a good sign. I called him in tears, saying it's a very hard thing for me to do but I have to leave him. He convinced me to stay, so I did, but I still have doubts. Recently he came close to a breakdown twice, but because he got medicated on time, he recovered quickly. I keep telling him to exercise and eat healthy to help his condition, but he doesn't do it. He exercises only when I remind him, otherwise, his job is sedentary. I have read stories about partners with bipolar, and it seems that a single slip-up can ruin everything, and I don't want that to happen. I have read about physical abuse, so I am worried about the safety of our future children. I also take issue with the fact that he is unwilling to get a job and just wants to sell board games online, which, in my eyes, is unreliable. I think he doesn't deserve a partner that has doubts about marrying him because he is a very family-oriented person and loves kids. I also love him but I also need to think about the future. If I stay, I think I will do him injustice as if I am just trying him on. I just wanted to know if there is someone out there in a similar situtation and can share their experience. How does such severe bipolar change over time, i.e., as one ages? If he keeps taking medications, how likely is it that he will be violent and abusive? Is it safe for me to have kids with him? He assures me that he is just like everyone else but even his therapist couldn't answer my questions.

(Happened in Telangana).There was a couple that moved in next door a couple of months ago, after a few days they got divorced. Then after a few weeks the wife squatted the home which was bought by her ex-husband.The husband was temporarily banished from his own house and even his family members had to leave .The husband filed a case on her since she took over his home through force(broke his doorlock) and got digital proof as such. We occasionally used to talk to her husband before he got married so, the wife accussed my father of taking the photos(proof) and sending it to her husband(pov looks like it's taken by someone near our corridor).Since then, my father is attending calls from police and has to get involved with their matter even tho he hasn't done anything. It's been really hard on our family. Is there nothing we can do about it?

my mom has ckd, for reference. also, this is very very new to me. i was told all of everything was psychosomatic.
for the past month, my kidney function has been going down (eGFR). i need to pee WAY more than i ever have. my back is in excruciating pain. i am constantly crying, unwell…
from 111 my eGFR dropped to 81 (i found this out just recently, after i complained abt this to my doc). and now i can’t stop crying.
i just got married six months ago!!!
i’m literally 23 years old, in a wheelchair, unable to go anywhere/do anything, or know a life without pain. how will i live like this. is it worth it? all i do is cause my husband and our families pain and suffering and it would be easier if maybe i just wasn’t here. (don’t worry, i’m safe…. just can see myself burdening everyone even though they won’t let on one bit i just KNOW).

Here is my situation, not sure if I am overreacting or I should take this as serious as I have been. Here we go:
Been married since 2015 but have officially been together since late 2007. For whatever reason, the last 2 months have been amazing, almost like when we first met.
Since 2007, she has been amazing, I had a child with my previous ex and she stepped up right away. It was amazing seeing this, she legit cared and watched him like it was her own and still does. We had children together since then, I have never had any issues with her such as trust or her doing anything shady.
She is a very attractive woman, she always gets looks if we go out and totally ignores them. She has always been a great partner in life, honestly, the type of woman any man would love: beautiful, great wife, great mother, always put the family first, always putting my needs over hers.
So here is my issue, in November 2009, we had an ugly fight. She left the apartment we were staying in for almost 2 weeks after i threw her out. When she came back and we made up, I asked her if anything happened while we were separated, she always answered no.
Well, after so many years, about four days ago, she finaly came clean.
Apparently she was so hurt from a fight and all the horrible things I said and vented to a coworker where she worked at the time. This coworker took her to an office to "talk".
Well this guy moved in for the kiss and they ended up having protective sex. He then asked her a couple days later if she wanted to "talk" same thing happened. She said she felt so horrible she cried almost all day, everyday. He made several attempts and she told him no, they could no longer be doing this.
According to her, she did not enjoy it at all, she felt numb at the time and broken. Not to get too explicit but she did not "moan" or move her body while he did whatever he did.
She said after so many years she could not tell me because she loves me so much and didnt wanna lose me.
Of course I was upset and threatened to leave, which broke her heart. But honestly, I am having mixed feelings about this.
Am I overreacting or is this something as serious?????

So I'm actually a corpo slave and I guess here comes adulting life and prolly looking for the one that I could have a bright future with or what.
About me: Big 4 grad last 2022
Working as a data analyst
Has a small business (like just not letting go of this one due to the existing customers I have) but planning to put a new biz but I cant start it since I dont know how to edit pics lol.
Lives in the metro.
Moreno
5'10
About you: Know her priorities in life.
Done with the party life.
Career Oriented and family oriented

in relationships i often say i will be with them forever. with my current boyfriend, we already have our entire lives planned out. he constantly talks about our kids and how our life will be once we are older, and in the beginning months of our relationship loved it. but im freaking out now, i feel like im going to lose it. i get into feeling that i want to be alone when im older and be just an adult for a while. but i already told him we will get married when we are young and have kids at 20 like my mom did. i feel sick thinking about it right now. my current boyfriend is also an ex i dated for 5 months and we were broken up for 8 before getting back together. he reached out to me and told me he loved me, i had just gotten out of a relationship. i said i missed and loved him to because i did, i believe i still do but i don't know. he was also very mentally abusive to me the first time we dated. sometimes when i think about it, i wish i wasn't so forgiving because he has scarred me in ways i will never be able to recover from. i don't know how i should approach my issue. if anyone has advice, please let me know